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I’m a 77-year-old woman with a 27-year-old granddaughter who loves tech gadgets. Despite my gratitude for her generosity and affection, I find the electronic gifts frustrating and unnecessary. I’ve urged her not to spend her money on me, but my words seem unheard. I struggle to communicate my lack of an interest without hurting her feelings.
The solution to this is to frankly express my sentiments to my granddaughter. I should tell her how much I love her and appreciate her kindness but realy don’t enjoy electronic devices and wish she would stop gifting them to me. I would truly prefer quality time or an event together.
On another note, I have a sister who I can’t get along with and I don’t wish to attend our mom’s funeral, due to our strained relationship. An acceptable decision, as the real intention of funerals is to comfort those who are still alive. Even if our bonds are strained, honor the living and do what feels most comforting for you when the time comes.
Finally, after investing hours into preparing a meal, is it suitable for a guest to season their food without tasting it first? While it might seem disrespectful, it’s good to consider asking your guests about their preferences. If you’re truly upset by such behavior, you have every right not to invite the person again. Remember, the primary goal is to make your guests feel comfortable and enjoy each other’s presence.
Remember, the actual writer of Dear Abby is Abigail Van Buren, known as Jeanne Phillips. It originated from her mother, Pauline Phillips. You can reach Abby at DearAbby.com or by mail at P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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